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		<title>For Writers &amp; Artists: Dealing With Bad Reviews &amp; Criticisms</title>
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		<pubDate>Sat, 06 Feb 2010 12:07:09 +0000</pubDate>
		<dc:creator>Len Sone</dc:creator>
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		<description><![CDATA[You just submitted that article or book and some of the reviews are not very nice. Or even just getting 4 out of 5 stars can get you going- why did they give me 4 and not 5??? You can even feel a certain rage for the person. &#8220;This guy wants to put me down [...]]]></description>
			<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>You just submitted that article or book and  some of the reviews are not very nice. Or even just getting 4 out of 5  stars can get you going- why did they give me 4 and not 5??? You can  even feel a certain rage for the person. &#8220;This guy wants to put me down  to make himself look intelligent,” you think.</p>
<p>Yes, lots of people will do that. There are  those out there who will try to fault what you have created because it  makes them feel better about themselves. They get to distinguish  themselves by pointing out that you are WRONG!</p>
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<li>It      helps to know these people give you the  same grade they give themselves. A      person can criticize others  about the same amount (actually a bit less) than      they criticize  themselves. It’s basic Law of Attraction. They are simply      showing  where they are vibrationally (ie. emotionally).</li>
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<p>Bashar, a UFO channeled by Darryl Anka, has  brilliantly explained that creation takes more power than destruction.  Bashar’s explanation went something like this:  Imagine  building a house of cards? Is it easier to make it or destroy it?  Obviously destroy it. Why? Because creation takes more Power!</p>
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<li>You      are the one who is creating and they are the one destroying. So who has      more Power? YOU!!!!</li>
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<p>Really your opinion of yourself is what matters  here. Take an honest look inside and feel your honest opinion of your  project. How did you treat yourself in school when you didn’t get a good  grade? You may be a perfectionist who expects an A on nearly every  test. <img src='http://kissesandhearts.com/wp-includes/images/smilies/icon_wink.gif' alt=';)' class='wp-smiley' />  Reviews are harder to account for because people come to your  articles/books/art expecting different things.</p>
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<li>Compliment yourself daily. Eventually someone will  disagree with you, or      give you a bad rating, and you won’t give a  damn. Why? Because you created      out of joy and you know you were  meant to and that it’s good. Not every      book is right for everyone.</li>
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<p>One question and concern is “But won’t others  read their review and think that too?” The answer is: Only if they were  already likely to think that. People who loved your work will think your  critic is wrong and might even defend you in their review.</p>
<p>Lastly, I leave you with a well-known quote by genius:</p>
<p>“<em><strong>Great spirits have always found violent  opposition from mediocre minds. The latter cannot understand it when a  man does not thoughtlessly submit to hereditary prejudices but honestly  and courageously uses his intelligence and fulfills the duty to express  the results of his thoughts in clear form.</strong></em>&#8221; –Albert Einstein</p>
<p>Kisses &amp; Hearts,</p>
<p>Len Sone</p>
<p><a title="Len Sone's Life Coaching Website " href="http://len-sone.com/" target="_blank">http://len-sone.com</a></p>
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